Little Girl is napping. She is a disco napper and will be awake in moments. As usual, there is the scramble to decide how best to use this time. Today, I will share links … cos there are some goodies. Then, I will step away from the screen. Promise.
It’s time to vote on the worst toy of the year over at CCFC. Toady Time! It’s gonna be hard to choose. There was some diabolical stuff in 2013. Some great toys for those who fancy buying some … gotta love the anti-princess, pro-engineer Goldie Blox range, and if you haven’t watched the ad yet you’re in for a treat! Slightly older kids (myself included) might just covet these yummy electric circuit building bits from Little Bits.
But let us never forget that some of the best toys ever aren’t necessarily for sale. Thanks National Toy Hall of Fame for reminding us.
A couple of completely different treats now … research about the effectiveness of parenting programmes in primary care situations (eg GPs offices), a yummy blog found by my dear Lauren … Girl Meets Dirt. I dig it. AND it has led me to iamthemilk, which is full of good writing about family life, motherhood, loss, and milk (all part of my daily life. Salut!)
My warm and sleepy toddler has climbed into my lap, hair all skewiff. This is over for now. Arohanui xx
As my dear late mama used to say “we have two ears and one mouth, so we should listen twice as much as we talk”.
I’ve been working hard to be a better listener of late: toddler, big girl, hubby & friends. Sometimes I’m good at it and other times I’m appalling. But it’s humbling how hard I have to work.
Let’s start with a lovely reminder of the camaraderie of motherhood. Tired mothers: you’re not alone.
This is a link to a li’l cautionary piece about kids and screens, here is another version of the same thing (with handy advice for parents, this time!) and check this out: children are way more distracting to drivers than cellphones!
This is a luscious list to give us some alternative ideas to use in discipline with our kids and this is some pretty fascinating research about aggressive behaviour and a possible link to epigenetic changes during pregnancy & early childhood.
OH! And while we’re thinking about early brain stuff (aren’t we always!) you gotta listen to my dear friend & esteemed colleague Nathan Mikaere Wallis talking early brain development on Radio New Zealand’s Nine to Noon show. HERE is the link.
When you finish, p’raps you’ll join me on a quest to be a more attentive & honest listener. Do you find it as tricky as I do?
Sometimes, it’s tempting to romanticise all that is rustic. I don’t know if it’s just that I am a momma who values simplicity in the lives of her children, or if it’s because I am a keen veggie gardener whose 1970′s upbringing included a reverence for self-sufficiency?
Anyway, those gnarly storms that hit us on Tuesday night left this family without power for 2 days, and now that it is back, I have never been so in love with electricity. Gotta say, though: I DID love waking and sleeping in alignment with what the sun was doing. Our poor wee caveman bodies are a bit confused by what faux lights do to our circadian rhythms. I think we’d have less drama about babies’ sleep if we had slightly less spazzy sleep habits ourselves. Anyway: Mt. Laundry is waiting for me after the washing machine hiatus. Reminding me anew to be grateful for my modern mama life, with the absolute absence of time spent scrubbing clothing against rocks.