{"id":99,"date":"2013-10-31T20:07:05","date_gmt":"2013-10-31T08:07:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=99"},"modified":"2013-10-31T20:12:42","modified_gmt":"2013-10-31T08:12:42","slug":"listening-and-linking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=99","title":{"rendered":"listening.  and linking."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Friends,<\/p>\n<p>As my dear late mama used to say &#8220;we have two ears and one mouth, so we should listen twice as much as we talk&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been working hard to be a better listener of late: toddler, big girl, hubby &amp; friends.\u00a0 Sometimes I&#8217;m good at it and other times I&#8217;m appalling.\u00a0 But it&#8217;s humbling how hard I have to work.<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s start with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/rachel-m-martin\/to-the-tired-mom_b_4104515.html\" target=\"_blank\">a lovely reminder <\/a>of the camaraderie of motherhood.\u00a0 Tired mothers: you&#8217;re not alone.<\/p>\n<p>This is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.stuff.co.nz\/technology\/gadgets\/9245044\/Little-brains-suffer-with-too-much-screen-play\" target=\"_blank\">a link to a li&#8217;l cautionary piece<\/a> about kids and screens, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.smh.com.au\/digital-life\/digital-life-news\/little-brains-suffer-with-too-much-screen-play-20131003-2uxh5.html#ixzz2giBMJmZf\">here is another version<\/a> of the same thing (with handy advice for parents, this time!) and <a href=\"http:\/\/theconversation.com\/children-more-distracting-than-mobile-phones-18877\">check this out<\/a>: children are way more distracting to drivers than cellphones!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/theattachedfamily.com\/?p=4168\">This is a luscious list<\/a> to give us some alternative ideas to use in discipline with our kids and this is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.news-medical.net\/news\/20130923\/Boyse28099-chronic-aggressive-behavior-may-be-due-to-epigenetic-changes-during-pregnancy-early-childhood.aspx\">some pretty fascinating research <\/a>about aggressive behaviour and a possible link to epigenetic changes during pregnancy &amp; early childhood.<\/p>\n<p>OH! And while we&#8217;re thinking about early brain stuff (aren&#8217;t we always!) you gotta listen to my dear friend &amp; esteemed colleague Nathan Mikaere Wallis talking early brain development on Radio New Zealand&#8217;s Nine to Noon show.\u00a0 <a href=\"http:\/\/www.radionz.co.nz\/national\/programmes\/ninetonoon\/audio\/2573135\/brain-development-in-the-first-three-years-of-life\">HERE is the link.\u00a0 <\/a><\/p>\n<p>When you finish, p&#8217;raps you&#8217;ll join me on a quest to be a more attentive &amp; honest listener.\u00a0 Do you find it as tricky as I do?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friends, As my dear late mama used to say &#8220;we have two ears and one mouth, so we should listen twice as much as we talk&#8221;. I&#8217;ve been working hard to be a better listener of late: toddler, big girl, &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=99\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[19,5,18,13],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/99"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=99"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/99\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":102,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/99\/revisions\/102"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=99"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=99"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=99"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}