{"id":849,"date":"2021-06-23T15:32:10","date_gmt":"2021-06-23T03:32:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=849"},"modified":"2021-06-23T15:32:10","modified_gmt":"2021-06-23T03:32:10","slug":"listlessness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=849","title":{"rendered":"listlessness"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Kia ora friends,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I asked someone I love &#8220;How are you going?&#8221; and they replied &#8220;Listless&#8221;. It hit me like a ton of bricks &#8230; feeling listless? Write a list! Had you ever noticed that? That listlessness is a literal translation of &#8220;that state of unfocused apathy that can accompany NOT HAVING A LIST&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Me, I love a list.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anyway, remember a while back I talked about <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stuff.co.nz\/life-style\/parenting\/300276867\/its-hard-work-being-a-parent-you-really-love-your-kids-but-why-exactly\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.stuff.co.nz\/life-style\/parenting\/300276867\/its-hard-work-being-a-parent-you-really-love-your-kids-but-why-exactly\" target=\"_blank\">chatting to a reporter for a Stuff article? Yes&#8217;m. Here is a link to that. <\/a>Also from Stuff is <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.stuff.co.nz\/national\/health\/300332253\/one-in-10-toddlers-gets-three-hours-of-screen-time-a-day-growing-up-in-nz-study-finds\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.stuff.co.nz\/national\/health\/300332253\/one-in-10-toddlers-gets-three-hours-of-screen-time-a-day-growing-up-in-nz-study-finds\" target=\"_blank\">this write up about a study happening via the University of Auckland which included the finding that one in 10 toddlers <\/a>in NZ has 3 hours of screen time per day. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How I wish this <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/us5.campaign-archive.com\/?u=ac2881538168a724cf44bca81&amp;id=232d680ae5&amp;e=de5350907e\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/us5.campaign-archive.com\/?u=ac2881538168a724cf44bca81&amp;id=232d680ae5&amp;e=de5350907e\" target=\"_blank\">gorgeous resource from School of Life <\/a>was widely disseminated &#8230; it&#8217;s a book of screen free fun and I am covetous. And here&#8217;s another handy resource &#8211; <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/screentimenetwork.org\/sites\/default\/files\/resources\/Be%20Tech%20Wise%20With%20Baby%20final%20Engish.pdf\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/screentimenetwork.org\/sites\/default\/files\/resources\/Be%20Tech%20Wise%20With%20Baby%20final%20Engish.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">a brochure from the Children&#8217;s Screen Time Action Network written for new parents<\/a> and giving solid advice about tech use. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Speaking of the Network, I attended an excellent (online) talk by<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/screentimenetwork.org\/action-network-live-recording-archive\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/screentimenetwork.org\/action-network-live-recording-archive\" target=\"_blank\"> Dr.Jenny Radesky and Dr. Roberta Golinkoff and there is a recorded version of it here<\/a>. It was about making wise choices if selecting tech for young &#8216;uns to use. The next one looks good, too, about Green Time. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Another video, this one from the Evolved Nest &#8230; <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=d_f4fzzFc8A&amp;ab_channel=TheEvolvedNest\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=d_f4fzzFc8A&amp;ab_channel=TheEvolvedNest\" target=\"_blank\">please check it out.  It&#8217;s just six minutes and SO GOOD.<\/a> A summary of Darcia Narvaez&#8217; amazing book Neurobiology and the Development of Human Morality. Very much my cup of tea!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Something that is NOT my cuppa is described here i<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/90641049\/google-education-classroom-ai?eType=EmailBlastContent&amp;eId=0682000c-f12a-4cbe-9fe0-e7184ff298e7\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/90641049\/google-education-classroom-ai?eType=EmailBlastContent&amp;eId=0682000c-f12a-4cbe-9fe0-e7184ff298e7\" target=\"_blank\">n a piece by Fast Company &#8230; it&#8217;s about AI in the classroom <\/a>and I say BACK OFF, GOOGLE. Surely that&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/thelivinglib.org\/technochauvinism\/\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/thelivinglib.org\/technochauvinism\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">technochauvinism<\/a> at its worst? Hey, speaking of Back Off Google &#8230; the most recent (and rather bloody gorgeous) issue of OHbaby! has an article I wrote &#8230; called &#8220;Google Strike&#8221;. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/E748A382-3848-444A-97DE-7945282E78A1_1_201_a.jpeg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/E748A382-3848-444A-97DE-7945282E78A1_1_201_a-1024x683.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-850\" srcset=\"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/E748A382-3848-444A-97DE-7945282E78A1_1_201_a-1024x683.jpeg 1024w, http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/E748A382-3848-444A-97DE-7945282E78A1_1_201_a-300x200.jpeg 300w, http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/E748A382-3848-444A-97DE-7945282E78A1_1_201_a-768x512.jpeg 768w, http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/E748A382-3848-444A-97DE-7945282E78A1_1_201_a-450x300.jpeg 450w, http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/06\/E748A382-3848-444A-97DE-7945282E78A1_1_201_a.jpeg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>What else? <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.commonsensemedia.org\/kids-action\/blog\/10-steps-to-a-better-youtube\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.commonsensemedia.org\/kids-action\/blog\/10-steps-to-a-better-youtube\" target=\"_blank\">Here is a gift from Common Sense Media <\/a>about 10 steps to a better YouTube, this is a <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/why-teen-depression-rates-are-rising-faster-for-girls-than-boys-129732\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/why-teen-depression-rates-are-rising-faster-for-girls-than-boys-129732\" target=\"_blank\">link to a piece from the Conversation about teen girls&#8217; rates of depression<\/a> being higher than boys&#8217;, and here&#8217;s <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=416wwb8DvuM&amp;ab_channel=MotivationThrive\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=416wwb8DvuM&amp;ab_channel=MotivationThrive\" target=\"_blank\">Dr. Gabor Mate on why attachment is everything.<\/a> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Take a moment to bask in the glow of<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2021\/06\/09\/arts\/music\/italian-library-music-sven-wunder.html?action=click&amp;module=Features&amp;pgtype=Homepage\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2021\/06\/09\/arts\/music\/italian-library-music-sven-wunder.html?action=click&amp;module=Features&amp;pgtype=Homepage\" target=\"_blank\"> Italian Library Music <\/a>(I KNOW! Thanks, NY Times!), here is a Washington Post piece by Jean Twenge (y&#8217;know &#8230; wrote iGen) &#8230;  about <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/opinions\/gaming-disorder-is-only-a-symptom-of-a-much-larger-problem\/2018\/06\/29\/64f2866a-7a21-11e8-93cc-6d3beccdd7a3_story.html\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/opinions\/gaming-disorder-is-only-a-symptom-of-a-much-larger-problem\/2018\/06\/29\/64f2866a-7a21-11e8-93cc-6d3beccdd7a3_story.html\" target=\"_blank\">gaming disorder being the tip o&#8217; the iceberg <\/a>and this is a <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/canada\/article-locked-out-of-the-ivory-tower-how-universities-keep-women-from-rising\/?utm_medium=Referrer%3A%20Social%20Network%20%2F%20Media&amp;utm_campaign=Shared%20Web%20Article%20Links&amp;fbclid=IwAR1dfUgnSbkfDNjjTX2bdMLyN-4lhG2Mzssy_Jh9sHH32Y6Il2h3s4gn7Yo\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.theglobeandmail.com\/canada\/article-locked-out-of-the-ivory-tower-how-universities-keep-women-from-rising\/?utm_medium=Referrer%3A%20Social%20Network%20%2F%20Media&amp;utm_campaign=Shared%20Web%20Article%20Links&amp;fbclid=IwAR1dfUgnSbkfDNjjTX2bdMLyN-4lhG2Mzssy_Jh9sHH32Y6Il2h3s4gn7Yo\" target=\"_blank\">Canadian news source reporting on sexism in academia<\/a>. Gross.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> Things I want to re-introduce to the world include <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/5rightsfoundation.com\/uploads\/5rights-disrupted-childhood-digital-version.pdf\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/5rightsfoundation.com\/uploads\/5rights-disrupted-childhood-digital-version.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">THIS important report<\/a> from the 5rights foundation in the UK, about the influence of persuasive tech in the lives of children. It&#8217;s called Disrupted Childhood and I wish everyone would read it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have a couple of McSweeneys pieces to share: both hilarious and tragic at the same time. Beyond bittersweet! <a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mcsweeneys.net\/articles\/honest-reasons-why-women-dont-want-to-go-back-to-in-person-work\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.mcsweeneys.net\/articles\/honest-reasons-why-women-dont-want-to-go-back-to-in-person-work\" target=\"_blank\">This one is about women returning to offices<\/a>, post-pandemic, and<a rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/www.mcsweeneys.net\/articles\/to-do-list-for-your-babys-15-minute-nap\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.mcsweeneys.net\/articles\/to-do-list-for-your-babys-15-minute-nap\" target=\"_blank\"> this one is a &#8220;to do list&#8221; for your baby&#8217;s 15 minute nap<\/a> &#8211; frankly this is a moment for listlessness. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kia ora friends, I asked someone I love &#8220;How are you going?&#8221; and they replied &#8220;Listless&#8221;. It hit me like a ton of bricks &#8230; feeling listless? Write a list! Had you ever noticed that? 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