{"id":587,"date":"2017-11-14T12:37:51","date_gmt":"2017-11-14T00:37:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=587"},"modified":"2017-11-14T12:37:51","modified_gmt":"2017-11-14T00:37:51","slug":"things-i-get-to-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=587","title":{"rendered":"things I get to do &#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Alrighty &#8230; so the power of language is well documented <a href=\"https:\/\/onbeing.org\/programs\/ellen-langer-science-of-mindlessness-and-mindfulness-nov2017\/\">(*never more enjoyably than in THIS EPISODE of the podcast &#8220;On Being&#8221;) <\/a>and just lately I&#8217;ve been playing with &#8220;get to&#8221; instead of &#8220;have to&#8221;, or &#8220;should&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I have to feed the calf.\u00a0 I have to organise an early dinner for my kids tonight, so we can go out.\u00a0 I should weed my veggie garden.\u00a0 I should write that essay.<\/p>\n<p>I get to feed the calf.\u00a0 I get to organise an early dinner for my kids tonight, so we can go out.\u00a0 I get to weed my veggie garden.\u00a0 I get to write that essay.<\/p>\n<p>Reminds me to have gratitude for the blessings that are wrapped up in those sentences.\u00a0 Reminds me to look for the blessings.<\/p>\n<p>Quick link dump, then.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.businessinsider.com\/the-case-for-teaching-philosophy-in-schools-2016-3\/?r=AU&amp;IR=T\">Fab article here<\/a> about the many and unexpected benefits of teaching kids philosophy in schools (YUM!!)\u00a0 Even pro-business publications are making the case for it!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.scoop.co.nz\/stories\/ED1710\/S00039\/parents-want-more-life-skills-taught-at-school.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Parents want some life skills in schools, too, apparently.<\/a>\u00a0 Could we categorise philosophising as a life skill?\u00a0 Man, teachers are going to be busy.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3432415\/\">Good paper here<\/a>, balanced and calm writing about adolescents and tech.\u00a0 FLIP.\u00a0 \u00a0We gotta set some limits.<\/p>\n<p>(OH MY GOODNESS it works here too.\u00a0 Instead of &#8220;We have to set limits on our kids&#8217; and our own tech use &#8230;We <em>get to<\/em> set limits on our kids&#8217; and our own tech use.\u00a0 Empowering.\u00a0 Yeah!)<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, This is a quote from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC3432415\/\">that aforementioned paper:<\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The Pew Internet and American Life Project Foundation synthesized results from their survey of over 1000 technology stakeholders and critics in a report with the less-than-decisive, but I think ultimately accurate, title of \u201cMillennials will benefit and suffer due to their hyperconnected lives\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/content.mobicip.com\/content\/tricks-digital-era?utm_source=Mobicip+Newsletter&amp;utm_campaign=a8d0421abb-newsletter_oct17_1&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_term=0_d79046fb92-a8d0421abb-379898637&amp;mc_cid=a8d0421abb&amp;mc_eid=94f503052b\" target=\"_blank\">Here is a list of scary things about the internet <\/a>(with an outdated Halloween theme.\u00a0 Sorry.)\u00a0 And<a href=\"https:\/\/www.health.harvard.edu\/blog\/what-parents-should-know-and-do-about-young-children-and-mobile-devices-2017102412619?utm_source=delivra&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=BF20171030-Stress&amp;utm_id=686828&amp;dlv-ga-memberid=43006138&amp;mid=43006138&amp;ml=686828\" target=\"_blank\"> here is an article by a doctor from Harvard<\/a> about what parents need to know (*Get to know!!) about children and mobile digital devices.\u00a0 Kids and cellphones.\u00a0 Y&#8217;know.<\/p>\n<p>I<a href=\"https:\/\/www.theatlantic.com\/magazine\/archive\/2014\/04\/hey-parents-leave-those-kids-alone\/358631\/\" target=\"_blank\"> read this some years ago, but it&#8217;s still great<\/a> &#8230; and for some reason, this week it recrossed my path so, SHARE I shall.\u00a0 Wild Play.\u00a0 God, I<a href=\"https:\/\/entropymag.org\/shall-we-go-a-review-of-savage-park-by-amy-fusselman\/\" target=\"_blank\"> loved the book Savage Park<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.radionz.co.nz\/national\/programmes\/afternoons\/audio\/2018619728\/combatting-doctor-stress\">In other news, I was super proud of the kiwi doctor who has had self care put in the medical oath.<\/a>\u00a0 Is it called Hippocratic?<\/p>\n<p>Finally, for joy&#8217;s sake:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/honestlywtf.com\/art\/flower-beards\/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=twitter&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+honestlywtf+%28HonestlyWTF%29\">Flower beards:<\/a> I love them SO MUCH.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Alrighty &#8230; so the power of language is well documented (*never more enjoyably than in THIS EPISODE of the podcast &#8220;On Being&#8221;) and just lately I&#8217;ve been playing with &#8220;get to&#8221; instead of &#8220;have to&#8221;, or &#8220;should&#8221;. I have to &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=587\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[14,10,2,5,6,23,8,22,7,21,20,31],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/587"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=587"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/587\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":588,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/587\/revisions\/588"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=587"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=587"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=587"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}