{"id":369,"date":"2015-11-26T14:23:34","date_gmt":"2015-11-26T02:23:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=369"},"modified":"2015-11-26T14:23:34","modified_gmt":"2015-11-26T02:23:34","slug":"slow-down-and-hurry-up-about-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=369","title":{"rendered":"Slow Down.  And hurry up about it."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am painfully aware of the frequently contradictory nature of my instructions to my children. \u00a0I have literally asked Big Girl to &#8216;please hurry up&#8217; just seconds after I&#8217;ve instructed her to &#8216;slow down and take more care&#8217;. \u00a0Ghastly.<\/p>\n<p>Before I throw links in your direction, may I wish a Happy Thanksgiving to all y&#8217;all American baby geeks out there. \u00a0I&#8217;ll be cooking a turkey for my half-American crew on Saturday. \u00a0In the heat. \u00a0Harvest festival at the beginning of Summer? \u00a0More contradictions.<\/p>\n<p>Right-ho. \u00a0Here we go. \u00a0First up: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.psychology.org.au\/Assets\/Files\/PW15-SR.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">here&#8217;s a report from the Australian Psychological Society<\/a> about the well being of Australians. \u00a0Interesting how FOMO and social media immersion are making folks less content. \u00a0Also from Australia, also dealing with mental health: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.latrobe.edu.au\/news\/articles\/2015\/release\/mental-health-link-to-work-life-balance\" target=\"_blank\">read about how flippin hard mothers are working <\/a>and how it impacts them. \u00a0No prizes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/truceteachers.org\/docs\/TRUCE_Toy_Guide_2016.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">This is the legendary annual pre-Christmas TRUCE toy guide<\/a> &#8230; please read and share. \u00a0The opposite of that is to be found <a href=\"http:\/\/www.commercialfreechildhood.org\/action\/2015-toady-awards\" target=\"_blank\">HERE: it&#8217;s voting time for the annual TOADY \u00a0awards<\/a> from the Campaign for a Commercial Free Childhood. \u00a0Such hideous toys to choose from this year! \u00a0What will you select?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/10.1111\/j.1467-7687.2011.01049.x\/abstract\" target=\"_blank\">Here is a link to an abstract<\/a>\u00a0for some research about toddler&#8217;s language acquisition &#8211; turns out our ums and ahs are more valuable than we might&#8217;ve thought. \u00a0 Here is a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thebadassbreastfeeder.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">cool site from the Badass Breastfeeder<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.scientificamerican.com\/podcast\/episode\/brain-rhythms-sync-to-musical-beat\/?WT.mc_id=SA_MB_20151111\" target=\"_blank\">this is a wee audio piece from Scientific American<\/a> about our brain&#8217;s responses to music.<\/p>\n<p>And for your Big Kid, <a href=\"http:\/\/rosierespect.org.au\/\" target=\"_blank\">a lovely teeny youthy positive website from Oz. \u00a0Rosie Respect.<\/a> \u00a0I dig it!<\/p>\n<p>Finally, in &#8220;Be Careful What You Wish For&#8221; news, I submitted a proposal to present at\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/childtrauma.org\/2nd-nmt-symposium-banff-2016\/\" target=\"_blank\">The 2nd International Neurosequential Model Symposium:\u00a0<em>Advances in Implementation and Innovation in Practice, Program Development and Policy. \u00a0<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Blow me down, geeks, I&#8217;ve been accepted! \u00a0Bruce Perry! \u00a0Banff! \u00a0See you there!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am painfully aware of the frequently contradictory nature of my instructions to my children. \u00a0I have literally asked Big Girl to &#8216;please hurry up&#8217; just seconds after I&#8217;ve instructed her to &#8216;slow down and take more care&#8217;. \u00a0Ghastly. 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