{"id":205,"date":"2014-08-27T21:00:03","date_gmt":"2014-08-27T09:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=205"},"modified":"2014-12-18T10:53:40","modified_gmt":"2014-12-17T22:53:40","slug":"how-appropriate-guilt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=205","title":{"rendered":"How appropriate.  Guilt."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I tend to begin these posts with the same opening I almost always use on my correspondence: \u00a0&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry it has been so long since I wrote &#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But let&#8217;s focus on the positive. \u00a0I&#8217;m posting! \u00a0Now!<\/p>\n<p>I begin by humbly sharing <a href=\"http:\/\/www.totstoteens.co.nz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/Mummy-Guilt.pdf\">a link to a piece I wrote for Tots to Teens. \u00a0It&#8217;s about Mama Guilt. \u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Other links now. \u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.theage.com.au\/victoria\/childcare-workers-undervalued-and-underpaid-victorian-study-reveals-20140406-366t0.html#ixzz2yMcZMU00\">Research from Australia<\/a> mightn&#8217;t surprise anyone &#8230; child care workers are underpaid and undervalued. \u00a0The tragic bit is that even the parents of the children being cared for are guilty of the undervaluing. \u00a0Let&#8217;s just contrast that with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nih.gov\/researchmatters\/april2014\/04072014childhood.htm\">a new report from the Abecedarian project,<\/a> pointing to still more life long benefits of high quality early childhood education. \u00a0Oh, but <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/education-26853447\">here&#8217;s a wee reminder<\/a> of how not all ECE is high quality &#8230; \u00a0Irony! \u00a0She is not dead!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youthindex.org\/reports\/globalyouthwellbeingindex.pdf\">Here is a report<\/a> called the Global Youth Wellbeing Index, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.parentingrc.org.au\/index.php\/creating-knowledge\/making-a-difference-in-the-early-years\/preventing-sleeping-and-crying-problems\">here is a link<\/a> to reinforce the power of education for helping parents be cool about their wacky li&#8217;l babes. \u00a0This about infant sleep and reasonable expectations.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve linked here before, <a href=\"http:\/\/eastsidefm.org\/blogs\/catch-it-by-the-tail\/\">but let&#8217;s do it again &#8230; a family friendly music podcast<\/a> to dig on. \u00a0Kia Ora.<\/p>\n<p>Finally, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/sciencetech\/article-2449632\/How-check-phone-The-average-person-does-110-times-DAY-6-seconds-evening.html\">let&#8217;s just be honest about how often we check our smart phones,<\/a> shall we?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I tend to begin these posts with the same opening I almost always use on my correspondence: \u00a0&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry it has been so long since I wrote &#8230;&#8221; But let&#8217;s focus on the positive. \u00a0I&#8217;m posting! \u00a0Now! I begin by &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/?p=205\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[25,7,13],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/205"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=205"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/205\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":246,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/205\/revisions\/246"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=205"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=205"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/baby.geek.nz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=205"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}